You were so special and such a blessing; you have inspired me to do things I never thought I could accomplish. I will try my best to continue to honor you and make the best of my time here, but I look forward to the day when we will meet again. I love you and miss you every single day! <3
It has been one year since you were taken from me and I struggle every day dealing with the fact that I can no longer kiss you and hold you in my arms, and that I can no longer see your endless energy in action.
You were so special and such a blessing; you have inspired me to do things I never thought I could accomplish. I will try my best to continue to honor you and make the best of my time here, but I look forward to the day when we will meet again. I love you and miss you every single day! <3
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The moment that you left me
My heart was split in two One side was filled with memories The other side died with you. I often lay awake at night When the world is fast asleep And take a walk down memory lane With tears upon my cheek. Remembering you is easy I do it everyday But missing you is a heartache That never goes away. I hold you tightly within my heart And there you will remain You see, life has gone on without you But will never be the same. We miss you so much Aidan! Those we love remain with us,
for love itself lives on. Cherished memories never fade, because a loved one is gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart. For as long as there is a memory, they’ll live on in our heart. Author Unknown Go ahead and mention my loved one,
The one that died, you know. Don’t worry about hurting me further The depth of my pain doesn’t show. Don’t worry about making me cry, I’m already crying inside. Help me to heal by releasing the tears that I try to hide. I’m hurt when you just keep silent, Pretending they didn’t exist, I’d rather you mention my loved one Knowing that they have been missed. You asked me how I was doing, I say “pretty good” or “fine” But healing is something ongoing, I feel it will take a lifetime. Elizabeth Den "...I’m gonna be the last one standing ... I’m gonna be the last one landing..."
Excerpt from "Dynamite" by Taio Cruz Aidan always had so much energy every day, from the moment he woke up in the morning until he finally fell asleep at night. Every time I hear songs he enjoyed, I think of Aidan, and am reminded how special he truly was. Yesterday was the first October 22nd that we had to celebrate without Aidan here with us. We miss his presence, his energy, his smile, his love for bouncehouse birthday parties and handball, and much more. It was an extremely tough day, and we are thankful that we have the love and support of our friends and family. In honor of our beautiful Aidan, please always remember to drive safely and watch for pedestrians.
Four months ago I felt complete and whole. Then in an instant, my life was shattered into countless pieces. There is still and always will be a void without Aidan here, but I am slowly picking up the pieces now, and putting myself back together.
I miss you so very much, my da baobei. You will be forever in my heart. I'd like the memory of me
To be a happy one. I'd like to leave an afterglow Of smiles when life is done. I'd like to leave an echo Whispering softly down the ways Of happy times and laughing times And bright and sunny days. I'd like the tears of those who grieve To dry before the sun Of happy memories that I leave When life is done. --Helen Lowrie Marshall Thank you Aidan, for all the happiness, joy, and smiles that you brought to this world. We love you and miss you! It's been two months now and we still feel such an emptiness without our Aidan. I know he would want us to try to be happy and keep on going without him, but some times that's the last thing on our minds. We have to keep reminding ourselves that while Aidan's time was cut short, his time with us and with all of his friends and family had a great impact. He was an amazing person and would have carried that through to adulthood. Aidan had such a kind heart and took care of his little brother and always kept an eye out for everyone. He was a great helper to his friends and teachers, he had big dreams that he could have accomplished. Aidan... you are amazing! We love you son!
Six and a half weeks have passed and it's still tough not having our Aidan around. Those little things that he used to do that would bug us are now the things that we miss. We are saddened by Aidan's passing, but also have to look and see the happiness that he brought us while he was with us. Now we just have the pictures, videos and memories of Aidan. We love you very much Aidan and miss you more than you could imagine!
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